“O that there were some virtue in my tears .
. .”—Shakespeare
One of the Dalai Lama’s first
principles is something he calls “universal responsibility.” However quick we
are to place His Holiness on a saintly pedestal, it is only because the threshold
of our own responsibility sometimes seems so very low—especially at this moment
of reflection upon the massacre of the innocents in Newtown.
From a tearful President on down
through the powerful talk radio demagogues to ordinary citizens, we all bear a
share of responsibility for the climate of violence that is the context for the
tragedy in Newton. I’m as responsible as anyone because I took too long to write
my representative concerning my strong feelings about gun control. Great
Britain endured 58 firearm murders in 2011, while America had 8,775. Great
Britain banned handguns altogether in 1997.
The weapons industry and the
anti-control lobbyists led by the NRA certainly ought to step up to their
share. They managed to chill the speech of both presidential candidates, even
though the previous mass murder in Aurora, CO. took place at the height of the
campaign.
Talk radio and television, with
its sneering contempt for opposing views and simplistic polarization of issues
upon which people of good will may differ, clouds the atmosphere of our culture
with potential violence. Don’t say words alone can’t be violent, and incite to
violence. It happens all the time. The obscenity is to get paid millions to
pander to our most primitive fears and impulses.
It is a cliché to say that our
entertainment runs on the adrenalin of violence. But there are unconscious
assumptions operating that make that violence even more pernicious. The movie “Argo,”
a well-crafted thriller made by a liberal-leaning director about getting seven
Americans out of harm’s way in Iran, still managed to reduce all the Iranians
in the film to crude swarthy stereotypes. “Zero Dark Thirty” rationalizes our
government’s use of torture to find Osama bin Laden.
Our President lives and works at
the center of a storm of hyper-violence.
Mr. Obama has been the subject of more violent threats to his own life
than any President in history. And surely the threats to Obama’s person would
only increase if he took our international policies in a more dovish direction.
No worries there. It is the
commander-in-chief’s daily duty to rain down a hell of violence that, while
intended to eliminate terrorists, often kills innocent children as randomly as
the angel of death that just descended upon a peaceful town in
Connecticut.
Robert McNamara, Kennedy’s
steely Secretary of Defense, choked up with tears of pride when he left office
and was awarded the Medal of Freedom. Years later he was brought to the realization that the
campaign he helped to lead against Vietnam was a mistake of criminal
proportions. And so at last he
shed more universal tears, tears that included his sadness about the waste of
war and the deaths of too many innocent Vietnamese.
It is possible to imagine that,
in private, Mr. Obama sheds some tears for the broken innocents of Afghanistan
and Pakistan that are the “collateral damage” of his drones. For the time being, our political
culture continues to operate in a state of radical dissociation. When our
leaders shed tears equally for the deaths of children anywhere in the world, I
shall, as Michelle Obama said when her husband was elected, for the first time
be truly proud to be an American.